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Stanford’s reputation for being a non-dating campus with a rampant hookup culture honestly scared me.
I hardly knew what it meant to be in a relationship, so the thought of hooking up sent my head spinning. With an amorphous definition established, I decided to post a short survey in the Class of 2020 Facebook group.
While freshman Paco Lopez ‘20 believes that hooking up allows “everyone to be more honest and straightforward with their desires,” he is not part of the scene.
As Long calls it, “Breaksgiving” is a sad week in November dedicated to figuring out a rocky relationship.Of 100 freshmen who took it, only six shared my rather black-and-white belief that Stanford students don’t date at all.Most students believed that relationships are more common among upperclassmen.I wrote off a girl (well have tried to anyway with great difficulty) I felt strongly for about a year ago due to the fact that although she expressed strong interested in me, she moved onto another guy due to me moving too slow, being aloof etc.Since then, as part of bringing closure to the whole episode, I read all these theories about escalation-windows and auto-rejection, and concluded that this was most likely what happened in my case, and thus put the whole thing to rest, reaching acceptance that anything we had was over (well at least trying my best with these steps), and resolving not to make these 'mistakes' again with the next someone special who comes along.